Why Human Trainers beat AI Workout Robots

There has been a flood of workout apps many of which provide some level of AI support. They tend to have a slick user interface, fancy graphs and sometimes even let you chat with you personal AI.

Using AI is shockingly easy to use and can be surprisingly effective at creating plausible workout programs. I tried this in my favorite AI bot Claude:


However, I think the main reason people, especially older unfit gym novices, look for a coach is not have a written program but for the motivation and feedback. When I decided to get healthy I made a couple of tries to get a fitness program started. I bought the indoor bike, the dumbbells, dusted of the old Concept2 rower that I bought out of college nostalgia, but I just couldn’t get into it. I tried various apps like Calibre and Hevy and that gave some structure and tracking, but training never became a habit.

After this frustrating experience I decided I needed a human coach to help me teach exercises and “proper form” (i.e. not injure myself) and most importantly enforce accountability. Ultimately I found a great trainer on the Future app and things immediately changed. I started working out consistently 4 times a week at home. In the following months we have bumped that up to 5 times a week (one of them in the gym in my office building).

It’s not even that my trainer gives me a hard time – the pressure to disappoint him is just so much higher than disappointing some AI algorithm..

If you want to make training a habit I strongly recommend enlisting a human to help. Whether you have a friend/relative who is a gym rat or a professional trainer. If you are intimidated by the idea of a public gym (as I was), use one of the online programs. It will make a huge difference.

Reality hits at annual physical

After years of not getting a physical (out of laziness and the fear “they will just tell me to lose weight and eat broccoli”), I finally got a physical last October.

I knew I had gained a lot of weight but seeing “373lbs” on the scale gave me a profound shock. I had fastidiously avoided weighing myself for years… in that moment I decided something had to change. My doctor (actually a great NP) gave me the usual speech “you should lose some weight” but to her credit she also suggested that a GLP-1 agonist could help.

Being an engineer I started reading everything I could and looking for tools to help me that day. I started counting calories and living at a 500-1000 calorie deficit the next day. I almost immediately started losing weight. Getting the Zepbound subscription took a few more weeks.

For me the calorie deficit and focus on getting lots of protein is the trick. This obviously requires some willpower but that is where Zepbound came in and took away a lot of “food noise”.

It’s really not *that* hard, decide you will stick to what the tracking app tells you (I use MacroFactor), weigh yourself every day and track with a tool like Happy Scale.

For me this has been spectacularly successful but of course the trick will be to keep the weight off.

Welcome to DadStrengthDaily: Building Resilience in Your Prime

Hey there, and welcome to DadStrengthDaily.

If you’re reading this, chances are you’re like me – a dad in your fifties navigating the unique challenges that come with this stage of life. Maybe you’re watching your kids head off to college while simultaneously caring for aging parents. Perhaps you’re crushing it in your career but feeling crushed by the weight of endless responsibilities. Or maybe you’ve looked in the mirror recently and wondered when exactly your body started feeling like it belongs to someone else.

I get it. Because I’ve been there.

Why I Started This Blog

Two years ago, I found myself at a crossroads. My career was demanding more than ever, my kids needed me in ways I hadn’t anticipated, and my body was sending me some pretty clear signals that the “I’ll get to it later” approach to health wasn’t working anymore. I was tired, stressed, and frankly, not the dad or man I wanted to be.

That’s when I realized something important: being a dad in your fifties isn’t about slowing down – it’s about getting smarter about how you show up.

What DadStrengthDaily Is All About

This blog is for men who refuse to accept that turning fifty means turning in your health card. It’s for dads who want to model strength, resilience, and vitality for their families while navigating the very real challenges of midlife.

Here’s what we’ll explore together:

Physical Strength and Fitness
Let’s be honest – your body at fifty isn’t your body at thirty, and that’s actually okay. We’ll dive into realistic, sustainable fitness routines that work around busy schedules, joint concerns, and the reality that recovery takes a bit longer these days. From strength training that protects your back during those weekend projects to cardio that doesn’t destroy your knees, we’ll find what works for real dads with real lives. We’ll look into what really matters for feeling better and longevity of the average man — not the instagram influencer.

Mental Health and Stress Management
The sandwich generation pressure is real. Career demands, financial pressures, family responsibilities – it’s a lot. We’ll talk openly about anxiety, stress, and the mental health challenges that many of us face but rarely discuss. More importantly, we’ll share practical strategies for building mental resilience and finding balance.

Career and Life Balance
You’ve worked hard to get where you are professionally, but at what cost? We’ll explore how to maintain career momentum while actually being present for the moments that matter most with your family.

Practical Dad Hacks
From meal prep strategies that fuel your workouts to time management techniques that create space for self-care, we’ll share real-world solutions for common dad challenges.

My Promise to You

I won’t sugarcoat the challenges or pretend that building strength – physical, mental, or emotional – in your fifties is easy. But I will share what I’ve learned, what’s worked, what hasn’t, and connect you with experts and other dads who are on this same journey.

This isn’t about becoming a fitness influencer or achieving some impossible standard. It’s about becoming the strongest version of yourself so you can show up fully for the people who matter most.

Join the Community

Your fifties can be your strongest decade yet – not despite your responsibilities, but because of how you choose to meet them. Whether you’re just starting to think about your health or you’re already on the path but looking for community and fresh perspectives, you belong here.

Let’s build strength together – one day at a time.

Drop a comment below and tell me: What’s your biggest challenge right now as a dad in your fifties? What brought you here today?

Here’s to showing up strong.

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